As narrated by Phenny Awiti herself
And yes,
Be very careful of Kenyans in Diaspora especially Germany.
I did not know that I’d say this, but generally this narrative is so so true.
Here is what happened.
When I was bringing the girls here, it’s only my ex who had the powers to bring them here as I wasn’t working at this time.
It became so worse that when he was in the dating sites, he cancelled the girls’ visa applications in the name of he found someone else…a Kenyan.
Within this time, Kenyans were flooding his inbox from Afro Introduction…the Kenyans that were bullying me with pseudo accounts were the same Kenyans that were in my ex’s inbox begging for papers and for their kids to be adopted, and issues paternity…
Some asked for money…
Some were promised money for passport applications through e-citizen registration.
Some would video call while we were there, with my kids.
I found Kenyans at some point in my ex’s house, in the bed that we once shared when I was just from the work shifts in Amazon!
The same ones saying ” Awwwh, you made it Jaber? I am happy for you Jaber…”
Kenyans in Diaspora(NOT ALL), are a reflection of someone who will go and face you in the front and take that shot to unalive you.
The warnings on not sharing your private information with them over here should be regarded as an emergency.
Share at your own peril!
I think there is always a WhatsApp group set specifically with such people to share any of your downfalls and the news they regard “shameful, sad, your weaknesses or those that can put you down.”
So, any information you share, know that you’ve shared it with 80 million more people of the German population ๐.
But tell you what? Such things are a reflection of clear positions that people hold in your life.
Such experiences made me strongest, and most of all, they paved a way for me and my kids on who is for us and against us.
Isn’t that what life is all about?
Isn’t that the beauty of it all?
Generally, HOLD THE PEN AND WRITE YOUR STORY!
WRITE YOUR STORY!
As blurred as it maybe, as bad as it may sound to people, as SHAMEFUL as it may appear to the society, WRITE YOUR STORY!
POWER TO YOU strong, inspired, brave and beautiful person.
Write your story, hold that pen, get your power back…
Because over here….
We have created a
๐ SAFE SPACE ๐